Adele swept the Grammys and the Brit awards. She’s still breaking record charts and she’s the first artist to go double-platinum on iTunes. But despite all of her success, some people are having a hard time overlooking her weight.

Jennifer Hudson approached Adele backstage at the Grammys to congratulate her on her wins, but she started offering some fat girl advice. She told Adele, “I used to be heavy just like you and gosh, Weight Watchers saved my life! I can hook you up.”

Adele couldn’t believe her audacity and just told her that she is content at 165 and doesn’t plan on dieting. Friends say that Jennifer’s heart is in the right place, but she has become too preachy since losing all that weight.